Sunday, March 20, 2011

South Coast Symphony

My daughter chose to go the Symphony on her birthday. It was wonderful. So moving. Every song sounds better with a live Orchestra. The power of music was realized all over again.


Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Happy 21st Birthday to My Daughter!



21 Years ago today my lovely daughter was born. She has been a complete delight for me to raise. I have so much fun with her each day. We had a family birthday Greek dinner today....her C & C friends had a little cupcake & coffee time with her tonight....and tomorrow night she's chosen to go to Ruth's Chris Steak house and then to South Coast Peforming Arts for a Symphony. She loves the arts. Hope she feels how much she is loved!!! :-)

Friday, March 11, 2011

In Florida...it's a beautiful day!

Having a great time with family-celebrating the new church dedication with my sister & BIL, Alexa & Rick Olson. What a gorgeous new building!!! All 5 Starr girls and husbands, kids, momma & papa Howard , cousins, nieces and nephews. Great friends who are family by heart. Great fellowship, laughter, funny stories...great food!!!! Alexa knows how to entertain first class! Fun times!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Your Perspective is important...what do you see?

Old lady or young lady?...

The world is round and the place which may seem like the end
may also be only the beginning. ~Ivy Baker Priest~

Are you a writer?

Are You a Writer?

People ask me about writing all the time. How does it work? How can they get their message out to the world? On the recent Hay House I Can Do It cruise, I spoke to the Writer’s Workshop which was one of the programs given on the ship. What a great group of eager, empowered, and energetic people! I told them that it all hinges on what Abraham Maslow taught me many years ago when I was a young doctoral student. He told me to put forth what I wanted, my work, my message, and then detach from the outcome. This is true for any life work because the work itself must be what is satisfying and fulfilling for you. Writing is challenging work because it’s so easy to get consumed with how it’s going, what’s going to happen to it, who’s going to like or not like it. You want to get all of that stuff out of your head and just let the work flow. If you incarnated to be a writer, if that is your passionate calling, then you’ll be getting messages from Source, from Spirit, leading you in that direction.

If you are thinking these thoughts and being guided to write, remember that you incarnated to be a writer, not necessarily an editor. Your first job is to write and not to apply a critical eye to your work without first letting it pour forth. Writing is like anything else—the more you do it, the better you get at it, the easier it comes and the less concerned you’ll be about what’s going to happen to it, where it’s going, what it sounds like, whether it’s right. After my four decades of writing, I have a practice that works beautifully for me. I just let the ideas flow through my heart. I don’t write with a machine. I write with a pen and a paper which is what is most comfortable for me. I just let it flow, and I have a wonderful editor who’s been with me for 32 years. I let her take care of all the details.

To get started, forget the details and let your ideas come out on paper. Get your passion on the paper. Let the passion that you feel come through. You won’t be able to stop and it will be the best writing you ever did. Detach from the outcome. Forget about whether it’s going to get published, whether it’s good or not good, whether it’s the right thing. There is no right in this. Let it come; be an instrument of flow. It’s the practice that makes it work out. If you told me you had a lousy backhand in tennis, wouldn’t I tell you to go out and hit 1000 backhand shots this week? Keep doing what you love to the best of your ability. Stop judging and get out of your own way. I always tell audiences when I talk about writing: Writing isn’t something I do, writing is something that I am. I am writing—it’s just an expression of me. Is that how it is for you?

Life is short....enjoy each moment!


"We should all start to live before we get too old. Fear is stupid. So are regrets."
~Marilyn Monroe~